Narcissists Don’t Just Wound You Emotionally... They Curse Your Life
- Mocha Gypsy

- Sep 3
- 4 min read
Updated: Oct 22

When most people talk about narcissistic abuse, they focus on the emotional scars: the gaslighting, the invalidation, the endless blame-shifting. But as a psychic and magick practitioner, I know the damage runs much deeper. The dark energy that narcissists pour into their victims doesn’t just stay in the mind and heart... it manifests like a spiritual curse, sabotaging every part of life: love, finances, health, and even your connection to the divine.
And scapegoats? They are especially vulnerable.
How Narcissists Cast Invisible Curses
Narcissists thrive on control. They project their own darkness onto you, keeping you bound by shame, guilt, and fear. Over time, this toxic energy attaches itself to your spirit. It acts like a curse:
Relationships break down, repeating cycles of trauma.
Money slips through your fingers no matter how hard you work.
Anxiety, illness, and depression linger like a shadow.
Opportunities seem blocked, as if an unseen hand is holding you back.
It isn’t coincidence. It’s the lingering mark of a narcissist’s dark energy.
The Scapegoat: Target of the Narcissist’s Curse
In narcissistic families, the scapegoat carries the heaviest burden. As the one blamed for everything, your very identity gets entangled with shame and rejection. That energy follows you like a curse into adulthood.
I know this firsthand. As the scapegoat in my family, I carried years of projection and attack from my narcissistic mother. When I left for college, she turned her wrath on my younger sister... the former golden child. Suddenly, she became the substitute scapegoat. She was hospitalized in the psych ward multiple times during her teen years because the spiritual and emotional weight was too heavy to carry.
This is how narcissistic curses work: they don’t stop when one target escapes. They shift, searching for a new victim.
Even the Golden Children Aren’t Safe
Many people assume the golden child gets away unscathed. But that isn’t the truth. My two younger siblings, both golden children, carried their own hidden curses. Each ended up in painful, destructive marriages... just like me.
Why? Because narcissistic energy imprints itself deep into the family system. No role is free from it. Both scapegoats and golden children inherit the “curse,” though it manifests differently.
For scapegoats, it often looks like:
Constant self-sabotage, no matter how hard they try to rise.
Attracting toxic friends, partners, or bosses who mirror the original abuse.
Physical illness or mental health struggles that seem relentless.
Feeling blocked, invisible, or rejected everywhere they go.
For golden children, it may show up as:
Narcissistic tendencies of their own, repeating the cycle of abuse.
Low self-esteem hidden under perfectionism and achievement.
Failed or toxic relationships, often echoing the family dynamics.
An identity crisis once the narcissistic parent’s approval is gone.
Emotional collapse when the family scapegoat leaves and they become the new target.
No one in a narcissistic family escapes untouched. Whether you were the scapegoat or the golden child, the curse leaves a mark that follows you until it is broken.
Breaking Free from the Darkness
The good news: curses can be broken!
Through years of psychic work and magickal practice, I’ve developed a powerful process to clear the spiritual residue left by narcissists. I call it The Darkness of Abusers and Enemies Purification Ritual, empowered by the Seraphim angel, Sharphiel, whose fire burns away abuse and darkness at the root.
When I first performed this series of purifications on myself, I was at rock bottom... stuck in Wyoming after being nearly destroyed by the court system, surrounded by stagnation, and feeling like no matter what I did, life kept circling back to pain, blockages, and struggle. It was the accumulation of everything: childhood scapegoating, narcissistic abuse, betrayal, and despair.
The moment I began the ritual... naming and purifying each abuser's curse who had intentionally harmed me... everything shifted. Almost immediately, the weight lifted. New opportunities flowed within just a few weeks and months. I found peace, clarity, and the strength to rebuild my life. Today, I live freely with my daughter in Costa Rica, surrounded by harmony, beauty, and stability, without the energetic chaos that once ruled my world.
It was in that transformation that I realized something profound: I had become my own liberator, my own guardian spirit of deliverance. And I’ve watched the same miracle unfold for others who’ve done this work... their lives turned completely around, blessings flowing where blockages once stood.
This isn’t just about healing emotions. It’s about cutting the spiritual cords, neutralizing the curse, and reclaiming your power, love, and destiny!

Are You Ready to Lift the Curse?
If you’ve felt the weight of a narcissist’s shadow... if your love life, health, and or finances always seem bound to invisible chains, it’s time to break them.
The Darkness of Abusers Purification Ritual was created for this very purpose: to dissolve the energetic residue of abusers, burn away the curses they leave behind, and restore the light of your divine essence. Guided by the Seraphim angel Sharphiel, this ritual clears the spiritual cords that keep you tied to pain and resets your path toward peace, prosperity, and freedom.
If your spirit is telling you it’s time, trust that nudge. And if you’re not yet ready to step fully into the complete ritual, you can still experience a taste of its power... by receiving a focused Curse & Negative Energy Removal Ritual for just one person you believe is casting a dark shadow over your life.
✨ Begin your purification now and step into life beyond the narcissist’s curse.







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