Narcissists Don’t Just Wound You Emotionally... They Curse Your Life
- Mocha Gypsy
- Sep 3
- 3 min read

When most people talk about narcissistic abuse, they focus on the emotional scars: the gaslighting, the invalidation, the endless blame-shifting. But as a psychic and magick practitioner, I know the damage runs much deeper. The dark energy that narcissists pour into their victims doesn’t just stay in the mind and heart... it manifests like a spiritual curse, sabotaging every part of life: love, finances, health, and even your connection to the divine.
And scapegoats? They are especially vulnerable.
How Narcissists Cast Invisible Curses
Narcissists thrive on control. They project their own darkness onto you, keeping you bound by shame, guilt, and fear. Over time, this toxic energy attaches itself to your spirit. It acts like a curse:
Relationships break down, repeating cycles of trauma.
Money slips through your fingers no matter how hard you work.
Anxiety, illness, and depression linger like a shadow.
Opportunities seem blocked, as if an unseen hand is holding you back.
It isn’t coincidence. It’s the lingering mark of a narcissist’s dark energy.
The Scapegoat: Target of the Narcissist’s Curse
In narcissistic families, the scapegoat carries the heaviest burden. As the one blamed for everything, your very identity gets entangled with shame and rejection. That energy follows you like a curse into adulthood.
I know this firsthand. As the scapegoat in my family, I carried years of projection and attack from my narcissistic mother. When I left for college, she turned her wrath on my younger sister... the former golden child. Suddenly, she became the substitute scapegoat. She was hospitalized in the psych ward multiple times during her teen years because the spiritual and emotional weight was too heavy to carry.
This is how narcissistic curses work: they don’t stop when one target escapes. They shift, searching for a new victim.
Even the Golden Children Aren’t Safe
Many people assume the golden child gets away unscathed. But that isn’t the truth. My two younger siblings, both golden children, carried their own hidden curses. Each ended up in painful, destructive marriages... just like me.
Why? Because narcissistic energy imprints itself deep into the family system. No role is free from it. Both scapegoats and golden children inherit the “curse,” though it manifests differently.
For scapegoats, it often looks like:
Constant self-sabotage, no matter how hard they try to rise.
Attracting toxic friends, partners, or bosses who mirror the original abuse.
Physical illness or mental health struggles that seem relentless.
Feeling blocked, invisible, or rejected everywhere they go.
For golden children, it may show up as:
Narcissistic tendencies of their own, repeating the cycle of abuse.
Low self-esteem hidden under perfectionism and achievement.
Failed or toxic relationships, often echoing the family dynamics.
An identity crisis once the narcissistic parent’s approval is gone.
Emotional collapse when the family scapegoat leaves and they become the new target.
No one in a narcissistic family escapes untouched. Whether you were the scapegoat or the golden child, the curse leaves a mark that follows you until it is broken.
Breaking Free from the Darkness
The good news: curses can be broken!
Through years of psychic work and magickal practice, I’ve developed a powerful process to clear the spiritual residue left by narcissists. I call it The Darkness of Abusers and Enemies Purification Journey, guided by the Seraphim angel Sharphiel, whose fire burns away abuse and darkness at the root.
This isn’t just about healing emotions, it’s about cutting the spiritual cords, neutralizing the curse, and reclaiming your power, love, and destiny.

Are You Ready to Lift the Curse?
If you’ve felt cursed by your narcissistic family, if you see patterns of sabotage in love, money, or health, you don’t have to carry it anymore.
I invite you to schedule a free consultation with me to explore if this journey is right for you. Together, we can uncover the hidden roots of the curse and begin your path to freedom.
✨ Set your free consultation today and step into the light beyond the narcissist’s shadow.
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